{"id":389,"date":"2022-07-25T12:50:58","date_gmt":"2022-07-25T10:50:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/annapa.cz\/?p=389"},"modified":"2022-07-30T16:48:17","modified_gmt":"2022-07-30T14:48:17","slug":"perinatalni-ztrata-a-potrat-rozhovor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annapa.cz\/?p=389","title":{"rendered":"Perinat\u00e1ln\u00ed ztr\u00e1ta a potrat &#8211; rozhovor pro \u010dasopis Maminka"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>21. 7. 2022 v \u010dasopise Maminka vy\u0161el rozhovor, kter\u00fd se mnou p\u0159ipravila Petra Schwarz Koutsk\u00e1. P\u0159i jeho tvorb\u011b jsem se trochu rozepsala, a tak p\u0159id\u00e1v\u00e1m p\u016fvodn\u00ed dlouhou verzi sem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-default\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/annapa.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/20220722_164345-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-390\" width=\"532\" height=\"709\" srcset=\"https:\/\/annapa.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/20220722_164345-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/annapa.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/20220722_164345-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/annapa.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/20220722_164345-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/annapa.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/20220722_164345-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/annapa.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/20220722_164345-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 532px) 100vw, 532px\" \/><figcaption>Maminka 8\/2022, foto v \u010dl\u00e1nku Milo\u0161 Bu\u010dinsk\u00fd<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h5><strong>Co je to takzvan\u00e1 perinat\u00e1ln\u00ed ztr\u00e1ta?<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Perinat\u00e1ln\u00ed ztr\u00e1ta je \u00famrt\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte v&nbsp;obdob\u00ed okolo porodu \u2013 b\u011bhem t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed, p\u0159i porodu nebo kr\u00e1tce po n\u011bm (\u010dasn\u00e9 novorozeneck\u00e9 \u00famrt\u00ed \u2013 do 7 dn\u016f po porodu). Tato ztr\u00e1ta je tragickou ud\u00e1lost\u00ed, kter\u00e1 zas\u00e1hne \u017eivot cel\u00e9 rodiny. Je prov\u00e1zen\u00e1 emo\u010dn\u00ed reakc\u00ed \u017eeny, jej\u00edho partnera i jejich okol\u00ed. Proch\u00e1z\u00ed v&nbsp;r\u016fzn\u00fdch podob\u00e1ch procesem truchlen\u00ed, \u010dasto se dostavuj\u00ed pocity smutku, \u017ealu, bezmoci, viny atd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I ztr\u00e1ta v&nbsp;po\u010d\u00e1tku t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed definovan\u00e1 jako potrat m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt spojena s&nbsp;podobn\u00fdmi pocity. A to a\u0165 u\u017e jde o potrat spont\u00e1nn\u00ed, indukovan\u00fd ze zdravotn\u00ed indikace nebo na \u017e\u00e1dost \u017eeny z nejr\u016fzn\u011bj\u0161\u00edch d\u016fvod\u016f. Proto se m\u016f\u017eeme setkat tak\u00e9 s term\u00ednem prenat\u00e1ln\u00ed ztr\u00e1ta, kter\u00fd ozna\u010duje ztr\u00e1tu v jak\u00e9koli dob\u011b od vzniku t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed do porodu. <strong>Pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed \u017een je velmi individu\u00e1ln\u00ed a je t\u0159eba d\u00e1vat pozor na bagatelizaci \u010dasn\u00e9 ztr\u00e1ty.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Smrt d\u00edt\u011bte obecn\u011b je n\u00e1ro\u010dnou ud\u00e1lost\u00ed, jde proti o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161iny lid\u00ed o p\u0159irozen\u00e9m \u010dasov\u00e9m sledu d\u011bj\u016f. Perinat\u00e1ln\u00ed ztr\u00e1ta p\u0159edstavuje specifickou situaci. Rodi\u010de se p\u0159ipravovali na p\u0159\u00edchod d\u00edt\u011bte, zm\u011bnu sv\u00fdch \u017eivot\u016f a soci\u00e1ln\u00ed rodi\u010dovskou roli. Ztr\u00e1ta tak ovlivn\u00ed i jejich sebevn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed a m\u016f\u017ee naru\u0161it tak\u00e9 partnersk\u00e9 vztahy (partne\u0159i \u010dasto truchl\u00ed rozd\u00edln\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ztr\u00e1tu p\u0159edstavuje tak\u00e9 v\u00e1\u017en\u00e9 zdravotn\u00ed posti\u017een\u00ed \u017eij\u00edc\u00edho d\u00edt\u011bte, i v&nbsp;t\u00e9to situaci pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed rodi\u010de krizi, podstupuj\u00ed v\u00e1\u017en\u00e9 rozhodov\u00e1n\u00ed o intenzivn\u00ed nebo paliativn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di atd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h6><strong>Kolika procent t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed se t\u00fdk\u00e1?<\/strong><\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p>Perinat\u00e1ln\u00ed mortalita se v&nbsp;\u010cR dlouhodob\u011b dr\u017e\u00ed okolo 4 \u2030, perinat\u00e1ln\u00ed ztr\u00e1ta se tedy t\u00fdk\u00e1 zhruba 500 d\u011bt\u00ed ro\u010dn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5><strong>Co se d\u011bje, kdy\u017e u \u017eeny nastane takzvan\u00fd samovoln\u00fd potrat?<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Samovoln\u00fd nebo spont\u00e1nn\u00ed potrat je situace, kdy v&nbsp;prvn\u00edm nebo druh\u00e9m trimestru t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed samovoln\u011b dojde k&nbsp;ukon\u010den\u00ed t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed a vylou\u010den\u00ed embrya nebo plodu z&nbsp;\u017eenina t\u011bla (kter\u00e9 v\u00e1\u017e\u00ed pod 500 g a je bez zn\u00e1mek \u017eivota). V&nbsp;po\u010d\u00e1tku m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt podobu opo\u017ed\u011bn\u00e9 siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed menstruace, pozd\u011bji se m\u016f\u017ee sv\u00fdmi projevy v\u00edce bl\u00ed\u017eit porodu. Potrat v&nbsp;prvn\u00edm trimestru je velmi \u010dast\u00fd, kon\u010d\u00ed tak zhruba ka\u017ed\u00e9 \u010dtvrt\u00e9 a\u017e p\u00e1t\u00e9 t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed. V&nbsp;\u00fapln\u00e9m za\u010d\u00e1tku t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed \u017eena ani nemus\u00ed v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee je t\u011bhotn\u00e1. Nej\u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinou jsou chromozom\u00e1ln\u00ed\/genetick\u00e9 vady plodu. A\u017e v&nbsp;p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee doch\u00e1z\u00ed k&nbsp;opakovan\u00e9mu potr\u00e1cen\u00ed se p\u00e1tr\u00e1 po p\u0159\u00ed\u010din\u00e1ch. Potrat m\u016f\u017ee prob\u011bhnout jako kompletn\u00ed (kdy\u017e vyjde ven v\u0161e) nebo nekompletn\u00ed, tedy kdy uvnit\u0159 d\u011blohy z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed nap\u0159. \u010d\u00e1sti plodov\u00fdch obal\u016f. Potrat m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt potenci\u00e1ln\u011b rizikov\u00e1 situace (rizika siln\u00e9ho krv\u00e1cen\u00ed, infekce), ale <strong>s&nbsp;dobrou podporou si v\u011bt\u0161inou dok\u00e1\u017ee t\u011blo \u017eeny s&nbsp;potratem dok\u00e1\u017ee dob\u0159e poradit<\/strong>. Samotn\u00fd potrat nep\u0159edstavuje rizika pro dal\u0161\u00ed t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed, zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b pokud do\u0161lo k&nbsp;samovoln\u00e9mu o\u010di\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed d\u011blohy bez chirurgick\u00e9 kyret\u00e1\u017ee.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5><strong>Jak um\u00ed PA podpo\u0159it \u017eenu v takov\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b?<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Ka\u017ed\u00e1 porodn\u00ed asistentka by m\u011bla um\u011bt profesion\u00e1ln\u011b podpo\u0159it \u017eenu v&nbsp;situaci perinat\u00e1ln\u00ed ztr\u00e1ty nebo potratu. Podat \u017een\u011b informace a pomoci j\u00ed zorientovat se v&nbsp;jej\u00edm zdravotn\u00edm stavu, podpo\u0159it ji v&nbsp;informovan\u00e9m rozhodov\u00e1n\u00ed o dal\u0161\u00edm postupu, nab\u00edzet a zajistit podm\u00ednky pro neru\u0161en\u00e9 lou\u010den\u00ed s&nbsp;d\u00edt\u011btem, podpo\u0159it ji po psychick\u00e9 str\u00e1nce, nab\u00eddnout mo\u017enosti pro zpracov\u00e1n\u00ed ztr\u00e1ty a zdrav\u00fd proces truchlen\u00ed, poskytnout dal\u0161\u00ed informace a kontakty tak\u00e9 v&nbsp;oblasti soci\u00e1ln\u00ed atd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u0159i anonymn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di v&nbsp;r\u00e1mci b\u011b\u017en\u00e9ho chodu zdravotnick\u00e9ho za\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed bohu\u017eel m\u016f\u017ee snadno doj\u00edt k&nbsp;situac\u00edm, kter\u00e9 \u017eenu d\u00e1le traumatizuj\u00ed. <strong>Mezi porodnicemi jsou velk\u00e9 rozd\u00edly v&nbsp;poskytovan\u00e9 perinat\u00e1ln\u00ed paliativn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di, pro kterou neexistuje jednotn\u00fd postup<\/strong>, li\u0161\u00ed se nap\u0159. v&nbsp;mo\u017enostech zaji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed soukrom\u00ed i v&nbsp;tom, zda spolupracuj\u00ed s&nbsp;dal\u0161\u00edmi odborn\u00edky v&nbsp;t\u00e9to oblasti (psycholog, soci\u00e1ln\u00ed pracovn\u00edk, kn\u011bz apod.). <strong>I v&nbsp;p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b perinat\u00e1ln\u00ed ztr\u00e1ty\/potratu proto m\u016f\u017ee \u017eena ide\u00e1ln\u011b vyhledat svou komunitn\u00ed porodn\u00ed asistentku a zajistit si tak individu\u00e1ln\u00ed kontinu\u00e1ln\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di, \u0161ir\u0161\u00ed podporu od porodn\u00ed asistentky, se kterou se zn\u00e1 a kter\u00e9 d\u016fv\u011b\u0159uje.<\/strong> Existuj\u00ed porodn\u00ed asistentky, kter\u00e9 se p\u0159\u00edmo specializuj\u00edc\u00ed na prov\u00e1zen\u00ed perinat\u00e1ln\u00ed ztr\u00e1tou \u010di potratem. Porodn\u00ed asistentka m\u016f\u017ee pomoci s&nbsp;v\u00fdb\u011brem zdravotnick\u00e9ho za\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed, doprovodit \u017eenu\/rodinu k&nbsp;porodu, pom\u00e1h\u00e1 v&nbsp;komunikaci s&nbsp;person\u00e1lem a zaji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed intimn\u00edch podm\u00ednek pro rozlou\u010den\u00ed se s&nbsp;d\u00edt\u011btem, m\u016f\u017ee pomoci \u017een\u011b \u0159adou podp\u016frn\u00fdch prost\u0159edk\u016f b\u011bhem samotn\u00e9ho porodu nebo nap\u0159. p\u0159i vy\u010dk\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed na spont\u00e1nn\u00ed potrat nebo do\u010di\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed d\u011blohy (nap\u0159. s&nbsp;pomoc\u00ed \u017eensk\u00e9 bylinn\u00e9 nap\u00e1\u0159ky). D\u00e1le PA m\u016f\u017ee tak\u00e9 sledovat stav \u017eeny v&nbsp;n\u00e1sledn\u00e9m \u0161estined\u011bl\u00ed a ope\u010dovat ji nap\u0159. s&nbsp;pomoc\u00ed mas\u00e1\u017e\u00ed a zavinov\u00e1n\u00ed b\u0159icha \u0161\u00e1tkem. Takov\u00e1 respektuj\u00edc\u00ed p\u00e9\u010de pom\u00e1h\u00e1 p\u0159edch\u00e1zet dal\u0161\u00edm komplikac\u00edm, pom\u016f\u017ee \u017een\u011b l\u00e9pe p\u0159ij\u00edmat jej\u00ed slo\u017eitou situaci a o n\u011bco sn\u00e1ze se vyrovn\u00e1vat se ztr\u00e1tou, kterou pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1. V&nbsp;p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b pot\u0159eby PA tak\u00e9 v\u010das zjist\u00ed komplikace a \u017eenu ode\u0161le nap\u0159. do dal\u0161\u00ed p\u00e9\u010de gynekologa \u010di psychologa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5><strong>Je st\u00e1le obvykl\u00e9, \u017ee se \u017eena v ordinaci gynekologa dozv\u00ed, \u017ee se embryo nevyv\u00edj\u00ed a dostane rovnou \u017e\u00e1danku do nemocnice na revizi d\u011blohy, nebo u\u017e nen\u00ed tento postup ten jedin\u00fd b\u011b\u017en\u00fd?<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>\u017deny st\u00e1le velmi \u010dasto popisuj\u00ed situace, kdy se (nejen) po diagnostice zamlkl\u00e9ho t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed ocitly v&nbsp;\u010dasov\u00e9 t\u00edsni \u2013 najednou se v\u0161e seb\u011bhlo stra\u0161n\u011b rychle, byly okam\u017eit\u011b odesl\u00e1ny na revizi bez mo\u017enost\u00ed v\u00fdb\u011bru, a bohu\u017eel a\u017e pozd\u011bji zjistily, \u017ee ke sp\u011bchu t\u0159eba nebyl d\u016fvod a existuje tak\u00e9 mo\u017enost vy\u010dk\u00e1n\u00ed na samovoln\u00fd potrat. Ne v\u0161ichni gynekologov\u00e9 postupuj\u00ed stejn\u011b, <strong>postupn\u011b se i u n\u00e1s \u0161\u00ed\u0159\u00ed nov\u011bj\u0161\u00ed tzv. vy\u010dk\u00e1vac\u00ed p\u0159\u00edstup<\/strong>, kter\u00fd je v zahrani\u010d\u00ed \u010dasto preferov\u00e1n. Znamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee pokud nenastanou komplikace (nap\u0159. siln\u00e1 teplota nebo jin\u00e9 zn\u00e1mky z\u00e1n\u011btu \u010di p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 dlouh\u00e9 a siln\u00e9 krv\u00e1cen\u00ed), d\u00e1v\u00e1 se t\u011blu \u010das, aby se o\u010distilo samo, a\u0165 ji\u017e v nemocnici nebo doma. \u017dena si dok\u00e1\u017ee i s&nbsp;touto situac\u00ed poradit, m\u00e1-li dostatek \u010dasu a p\u00e9\u010de. Je v\u00fdhodn\u00e9 maxim\u00e1ln\u011b podpo\u0159it t\u011blesn\u00e9 procesy a v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed z\u00e1sahy minimalizovat skute\u010dn\u011b jen pro p\u0159\u00edpady komplikac\u00ed. Invazivn\u00ed chirurgick\u00fd z\u00e1krok, jak\u00fdm kyret\u00e1\u017e je, s&nbsp;sebou nese sv\u00e1 rizika a prov\u00e1d\u011bt ho plo\u0161n\u011b v\u0161em je p\u0159inejmen\u0161\u00edm zbyte\u010dn\u00e9. <strong>Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na mnoha okolnostech, zdravotn\u00edm stavu a samoz\u0159ejm\u011b tak\u00e9 ne ka\u017ed\u00e1 \u017eena si um\u00ed p\u0159edstavit, \u017ee by zvl\u00e1dla \u010dekat a proj\u00edt t\u00edmto procesem. V&nbsp;prvn\u00edch chv\u00edl\u00edch pot\u00e9, co je \u017een\u011b sd\u011blena diagn\u00f3za, b\u00fdv\u00e1 v&nbsp;\u0161oku a m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt probl\u00e9m vn\u00edmat sd\u011blovan\u00e9 informace<\/strong>. M\u016f\u017ee se cht\u00edt t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed okam\u017eit\u011b zbavit a reagovat r\u016fzn\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem, kter\u00fd se ale pozd\u011bji m\u016f\u017ee zm\u011bnit. <strong>Pokud si \u017eena dop\u0159eje v\u00edce \u010dasu na to proj\u00edt procesem potratu postupn\u011b, m\u016f\u017ee to pro ni b\u00fdt velk\u00fdm p\u0159\u00ednosem tak\u00e9 pro dobr\u00e9 psychick\u00e9 vyrovn\u00e1n\u00ed se se ztr\u00e1tou<\/strong>. D\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd je individu\u00e1ln\u00ed p\u0159\u00edstup, aby \u017eeny m\u011bly informace, podporu a \u010das, a mohly se tak svobodn\u011b rozhodovat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5><strong>Je pro \u017eenu zaji\u0161t\u011bna n\u011bjak\u00e1 n\u00e1sledn\u00e1 psychologick\u00e1 p\u00e9\u010de?<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Dostupnost n\u00e1sledn\u00e9 psychologick\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010de je komplikovan\u00e1. Ne v\u0161echny porodnice maj\u00ed k&nbsp;dispozici kontakty na psychology v\u011bnuj\u00edc\u00ed se perinat\u00e1ln\u00ed ztr\u00e1t\u011b, \u010dasto jsou zaji\u0161t\u011bn\u00e9 d\u00edky jednotliv\u00fdm aktivn\u00edm a neust\u00e1le se vzd\u011bl\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00edm porodn\u00edm asistentk\u00e1m, ne\u017e \u017ee by \u0161lo o syst\u00e9mov\u011b zaji\u0161t\u011bnou p\u00e9\u010di. Mno\u017estv\u00ed podpory zaji\u0161\u0165uj\u00ed tak\u00e9 r\u016fzn\u00e9 sv\u00e9pomocn\u00e9 i profesion\u00e1ln\u00ed organizace (Pr\u00e1zdn\u00e1 kol\u00e9bka, D\u00edt\u011b v&nbsp;srdci, Cesta dom\u016f, fond Kl\u00ed\u010dek atd.). Pokud \u017eena, jej\u00ed partner nebo kdokoli vn\u00edmaj\u00ed, \u017ee by mohli pot\u0159ebovat pomoci, a\u0165 nev\u00e1haj\u00ed a pomoc vyhledaj\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5><strong>Je pravda, \u017ee \u017eena proch\u00e1z\u00ed po p\u0159eru\u0161en\u00ed t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed, a\u0165 u\u017e z jak\u00e9hokoli d\u016fvodu, obdob\u00edm \u0161estined\u011bl\u00ed?<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Ano, i p\u0159i potratu \u017eena pro\u0161la v\u00fdrazn\u00fdmi zm\u011bnami, mal\u00fdm porodem. Je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, aby mohla odpo\u010d\u00edvat a dop\u0159\u00e1la si \u010das pro regeneraci fyzickou i psychickou. Je dobr\u00e1 kvalitn\u00ed v\u00fd\u017eivn\u00e1 strava, bohat\u00e1 na \u017eelezo (nap\u0159. kop\u0159ivov\u00fd \u010daj, \u0159epa), kyselinu listovou a dal\u0161\u00ed miner\u00e1ly a vitaminy, dostate\u010dn\u011b p\u00edt, poleh\u00e1vat, aby se d\u011bloha mohla zavinout na sv\u00e9 m\u00edsto, je mo\u017en\u00e9 vyu\u017e\u00edt podporu zavinut\u00ed podb\u0159i\u0161ku a p\u00e1nve \u0161\u00e1tkem, uva\u0159it si nap\u0159. kontryhelov\u00fd \u010daj. Je dobr\u00e9 dop\u0159\u00e1t si \u010das, pro\u017e\u00edt a nepotla\u010dovat jak\u00e9koli sv\u00e9 pocity. To samoz\u0159ejm\u011b plat\u00ed nejen prvn\u00edch \u0161est ned\u011bl, je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 dop\u0159\u00e1t si pot\u0159ebn\u00fd \u010das. Pro rozlou\u010den\u00ed se s&nbsp;d\u00edt\u011btem m\u016f\u017ee stvo\u0159it vlastn\u00ed <strong>ritu\u00e1l rozlou\u010den\u00ed<\/strong> n\u011bkde v&nbsp;p\u0159\u00edrod\u011b, m\u016f\u017ee vyu\u017e\u00edt r\u016fzn\u00e9 kreativn\u00ed zp\u016fsoby \u2013 napsat mu dopis, den\u00edk, nakreslit obraz. M\u016f\u017ee pomoci inspirace od \u017een, kter\u00e9 pro\u0161ly podobn\u00fdmi zku\u0161enostmi p\u0159ed n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 sd\u00edl\u00ed sv\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy t\u0159eba ve sv\u00e9pomocn\u00fdch skupin\u00e1ch na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch atd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>nap\u0159. na Facebooku skupina: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/prirozenypotrat\/\">Zamlkl\u00e9 t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed, p\u0159irozen\u00fd potrat &#8211; rady, p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, psychick\u00e1 podpora<\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.startovac.cz\/storage\/moxie\/106116\/lenka\/P1060727N.jpg\" alt=\"Podpo\u0159te &quot;M\u00e9mu miminku - dotisk pr\u016fvodce po ztr\u00e1t\u011b miminka&quot; na Startova\u010di -  Projekty | Startova\u010d\" width=\"540\" height=\"415\"\/><figcaption>Den\u00edk a tvo\u0159iv\u00fd se\u0161it:&nbsp;<em>M\u00e9mu miminku &#8211; Pr\u016fvodce po ztr\u00e1t\u011b <\/em><em>miminka; nenarozen\u00e9ho i narozen\u00e9ho; uzdraven\u00ed skrze tvo\u0159en\u00ed.<\/em>&nbsp;Lenka Bla\u017eejov\u00e1<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h6><strong>Mysl\u00edte si, \u017ee je t\u00e9ma perinat\u00e1ln\u00ed ztr\u00e1ty st\u00e1le tabuizovan\u00e9? Pro\u010d o n\u011bm \u017eeny nemluv\u00ed nahlas?<\/strong><\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p>Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee ano. T\u00e9ma smrti obecn\u011b je st\u00e1le tabu a pro mnoho lid\u00ed je velmi n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 o n\u00ed hovo\u0159it, boj\u00ed se, \u017ee \u0159eknou n\u011bco, \u010d\u00edm poz\u016fstal\u00fdm ubl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed, a proto se sp\u00ed\u0161 dr\u017e\u00ed za\u017eit\u00fdch fr\u00e1z\u00ed. Ztr\u00e1ta mal\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte je n\u011bco, co se vyt\u011bs\u0148uje je\u0161t\u011b v\u00edce, lidem se zd\u00e1, \u017ee to by se prost\u011b nem\u011blo d\u00edt. \u010casto b\u00fdv\u00e1 spojena s (neopr\u00e1vn\u011bn\u00fdmi) pocity viny a rodi\u010dovsk\u00e9ho selh\u00e1n\u00ed. Pokud zem\u0159elo d\u00edt\u011b v&nbsp;t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed nebo u porodu, b\u00fdv\u00e1 probl\u00e9m, jak se k&nbsp;t\u00e9to ztr\u00e1t\u011b postavit \u2013 d\u00edt\u011b bylo pro okol\u00ed t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 neviditeln\u00e9, v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed spojen\u00ed s&nbsp;n\u00edm m\u011bla hlavn\u011b \u017eena. Komplikac\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt, pokud se jednalo o necht\u011bn\u00e9 t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed atp. \u010c\u00edm d\u0159\u00edve v&nbsp;t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed ke ztr\u00e1t\u011b dojde, t\u00edm v\u00edce b\u00fdv\u00e1 bagatelizov\u00e1na.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>St\u00e1le u n\u00e1s tak\u00e9 dozn\u00edv\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edstup z&nbsp;dob minul\u00e9ho re\u017eimu. Od institucionalizace porod\u016f ve druh\u00e9 polovin\u011b 20. stolet\u00ed bylo br\u00e1n\u011bno kontaktu se zem\u0159el\u00fdm d\u00edt\u011btem, proto\u017ee panovalo p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee by \u017een\u00e1m p\u016fsobil trauma. \u017deny novorozence nevid\u011bly, nem\u011bly informace, nemluvilo se o n\u011bm a dle doporu\u010den\u00ed se sna\u017eily na situaci zapomenout. <strong>V&nbsp;sou\u010dasnosti se i&nbsp;u n\u00e1s postupn\u011b \u0161\u00ed\u0159\u00ed podpora kontaktu a rozlou\u010den\u00ed se s&nbsp;d\u00edt\u011btem, kter\u00e9 je p\u0159i citliv\u00e9m proveden\u00ed pro v\u011bt\u0161inu \u017een prokazateln\u011b p\u0159\u00ednosn\u00e9<\/strong>. Mezigenera\u010dn\u00ed rozd\u00edly v&nbsp;p\u0159\u00edstupu k&nbsp;porodu a d\u0159\u00edv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed traumata tak mohou v&nbsp;tabuizaci t\u00e9matu hr\u00e1t tak\u00e9 svou roli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zn\u00e1m \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 hovo\u0159\u00ed o sv\u00fdch and\u011blsk\u00fdch d\u011btech bez probl\u00e9m\u016f, sp\u00ed\u0161e se setk\u00e1vaj\u00ed s&nbsp;t\u00edm, \u017ee lid\u00e9 v&nbsp;jejich okol\u00ed maj\u00ed z&nbsp;t\u00e9matu obavu, nev\u00ed, jak reagovat a rychle t\u00e9ma opou\u0161t\u011bj\u00ed. Ka\u017ed\u00fd truchl\u00ed individu\u00e1ln\u011b, a tak <strong>pokud nev\u00edme, co \u0159\u00edci, je mo\u017en\u00e9 jednodu\u0161e se zeptat, zda o tom \u017eena chce hovo\u0159it nebo ne a jak.<\/strong> Vyj\u00e1d\u0159it svou up\u0159\u00edmnou \u00fa\u010dast. Naslouchat se z\u00e1jmem tomu, jak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem o d\u00edt\u011bti hovo\u0159\u00ed. \u010casto jim ztr\u00e1ta zm\u011bnila \u017eivot, nal\u00e9zaj\u00ed v&nbsp;n\u00ed sv\u016fj ur\u010dit\u00fd smysl a v\u00fdznam. Inspirativn\u00ed b\u00fdv\u00e1 tak\u00e9 jak reaguj\u00ed na vypr\u00e1v\u011bn\u00ed o&nbsp;zem\u0159el\u00e9m sourozenci mal\u00e9 d\u011bti, \u010dasto p\u0159ij\u00edmaj\u00ed jeho ztr\u00e1tu s&nbsp;velkou moudrost\u00ed a lehkost\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee je velmi d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 o tomto t\u00e9matu hovo\u0159it. Jeden z&nbsp;d\u016fvod\u016f je ten, aby se ve spole\u010dnosti \u0161\u00ed\u0159ily informace o tom, jak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem je mo\u017en\u00e9 potratem a perinat\u00e1ln\u00ed ztr\u00e1tou proj\u00edt, \u017ee je mo\u017en\u00e9 s&nbsp;d\u00edt\u011btem b\u00fdt v&nbsp;kontaktu a rozlou\u010dit se, jak je mo\u017en\u00e9 se se ztr\u00e1tou vyrovn\u00e1vat, co m\u016f\u017ee pomoci. D\u00e1le abychom se u\u010dili spolu laskav\u011b hovo\u0159it a naslouchat si, m\u016f\u017ee n\u00e1s p\u0159ekvapit, kolik ztr\u00e1t je v&nbsp;na\u0161em okol\u00ed. A v&nbsp;neposledn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b se domn\u00edv\u00e1m, \u017ee p\u0159ijet\u00ed smrti a smrtelnosti p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed nov\u00e9 hodnoty a skute\u010dnou kvalitu do na\u0161eho \u017eivota.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u011bkuji za rozhovor!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>21. 7. 2022 v \u010dasopise Maminka vy\u0161el rozhovor, kter\u00fd se mnou p\u0159ipravila Petra Schwarz Koutsk\u00e1. P\u0159i jeho tvorb\u011b jsem se trochu rozepsala, a tak p\u0159id\u00e1v\u00e1m p\u016fvodn\u00ed dlouhou verzi sem. Co je to takzvan\u00e1 perinat\u00e1ln\u00ed ztr\u00e1ta? Perinat\u00e1ln\u00ed ztr\u00e1ta je \u00famrt\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte v&nbsp;obdob\u00ed okolo porodu \u2013 b\u011bhem t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed, p\u0159i porodu nebo kr\u00e1tce [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annapa.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/389"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annapa.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annapa.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annapa.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annapa.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=389"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/annapa.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/389\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":406,"href":"https:\/\/annapa.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/389\/revisions\/406"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annapa.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=389"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annapa.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=389"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annapa.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=389"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}